Girlfriend problems

**Stownplayer** · May 12th, 2005, 06:22 PM

My girl cheated two days ago. She says she was drunk and that she's sorry. She does have a very low tolerance for alcohol. I'm talking about she get's screwed of a couple drinks. Anyway, let me know what you think. Should i dump the bitch, forgive her or dump her and get even with some dirty pics i have. I'm leaning toward forgiveness because she did not do this with the intent to cheat or hurt me. she just got too hammered and was in the wrong place at the wrong time. So she says.

**Kyle06** · May 12th, 2005, 06:30 PM

I always say forgive and forget

yet I would have to know the person to tell if they where really sencear(spelling I know)

**The Hunter** · May 12th, 2005, 06:37 PM

Sorry, but I would dump her like a hot potato. No offense Tater. I know I come off as an evil minded person at times, and I may be a dirty old man, but at heart Im a one girl type of guy. If she has a low tollerance for alcohol she should keep her snoot out of it, or suffer the consequences. Now thats just me, as I dont know how long you have been together, if its a serious relationship, or your ages.

**dubstylee** · May 12th, 2005, 06:38 PM

*slam* 'bye

**The Hunter** · May 12th, 2005, 06:47 PM

It kinda sounds like Dub and I have the same opinion. After being in many relationships, and one failed marrage, I have found that in my experience, if they cheat on you once, it will happen again. My wife thought I didnt know, but I was only keeping a home going to try and make things stable for my daughter. I really have been there and seen it.

Wipeout · May 12th, 2005, 06:49 PM

Give her a chance and forgive her. If she does that again, time to say bye bye.

**MacGyver** · May 12th, 2005, 07:02 PM

hehe, girls are good for 1 thing....besides that, they cost too much money...money i could be putting into my cars...

**RACKnRAIL** · May 12th, 2005, 07:28 PM

I had this happen to me. Believe me; you will never be able to trust her again. I know how badly the loss can hurt, but I think it's for the best. Once a cheater...always...

**Krell** · May 12th, 2005, 07:41 PM

Trust her . . dont trust her, it boils down to YOUR choice, and what you can live with.

In my off-hand opinion, I think you will not trust her, and will have a strained relationship from here on out. It takes a mighty big person inside to truly forgive and forget.

Is she a callous cheating bitch slut dog to the core? . . . I doubt it, but you two are only dating, are young, and probably need to get on with your lives and just chalk this up to an experience.

It doesnt matter who wins, or who feel whats blah blah blah . . . if you can part ways amicably and just go on about life, its best, trust me, it takes a LOT of work to dig an 8' deep hole.

But thats just me.

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**Gamer8585** · May 12th, 2005, 07:43 PM

Hmmmmmm...Tough call. If you buy her story you should forgive her. If you think she's lying you should dump her and seek vengence. If you deside to keep her you can always guilt her into having sex with you.
Example:
You: Hey baby lets have sex.
GF: I don't feel like it tonight.
You: How about a couple of drinks.
GF: You're never going to let that go, are you?!
You: No way bitch you betrayed me. Now spread 'em!
GF: (Sigh) Alright...I do owe you.

**Atheist Icon** · May 12th, 2005, 07:46 PM

Depending on how long you have been steady...I say Dump her. Alcohol (I have to wave a BS flag) is not an excuse, she knew what she was doing.

Originally Posted by MacGyver

hehe, girls are good for 1 thing....besides that, they cost too much money...money i could be putting into my cars...

I hear you on that one man...They are good for something else too. Using their cars as Guiene(sp?) pigs for Big Block projects. Hehe. I'm trying to figure out how to fit a 460 with a C6 tranny in my Fiance 03 Mustang.

PS - Stownplayer, if you have any good pics...I say display them.

**MacGyver** · May 12th, 2005, 07:53 PM

Originally Posted by Atheist Icon

Depending on how long you have been steady...I say Dump her. Alcohol (I have to wave a BS flag) is not an excuse, she knew what she was doing.

I hear you on that one man...They are good for something else too. Using their cars as Guiene(sp?) pigs for Big Block projects. Hehe. I'm trying to figure out how to fit a 460 with a C6 tranny in my Fiance 03 Mustang.

PS - Stownplayer, if you have any good pics...I say display them.

Big block - Ahh... I hate engines with pistons....displacement like that is just a waste of mass...piston engines suck. you have to spin the crank 2 times just to get 1 power stroke....now.. my 1.3 litre rotary engine in my mazda is something else...no valves, no springs, no rocker arms, no cams, none of that parasitic energy stuff.. just rotary energy...much more efficient than caveman piston engines.

**Atheist Icon** · May 12th, 2005, 08:04 PM

Originally Posted by MacGyver

Big block - Ahh... I hate engines with pistons....displacement like that is just a waste of mass...piston engines suck. you have to spin the crank 2 times just to get 1 power stroke....now.. my 1.3 litre rotary engine in my mazda is something else...no valves, no springs, no rocker arms, no cams, none of that parasitic energy stuff.. just rotary energy...much more efficient than caveman piston engines.

Although this is a conversation for a different thread, I will humor you for 1 more post. While I love the rotary engine. I cannot work on it. I have never been able to work on it...I have tried. Most people that know about it, say, "It only have 3 moving parts in the motor". I cannot grasp the concept to make it work. Give me a reciprocating motor and I can work on it all day long. I chose the 460 because of the LARGE aftermarket for it. I am experimenting with some blowers and whether or not I should keep it carb'd or go EFI.

I have seen several 700+ rwhp rotary's with thousands upon thousands of dollars invested in them. But I have seen a lot of 460's with 700+ rwhp with only 4k invested in them...not bad.

PS - there is no replacement for displacement...well one...BOOOST!

**shawners** · May 12th, 2005, 08:59 PM

DUMP Her now, or risk getting STD... Not enough mouth wash in the world could ever clean her mouth of some guys penis. When you get a girl.. whats in the past is in the past and done, dont ask for details of past relationships or you get jealous or wont trust the person.. Knowing details and stuff now, youll expect her to cheat and it will always be in back of your mind.

**MacGyver** · May 12th, 2005, 09:17 PM

Originally Posted by Atheist Icon

Although this is a conversation for a different thread, I will humor you for 1 more post. While I love the rotary engine. I cannot work on it. I have never been able to work on it...I have tried. Most people that know about it, say, "It only have 3 moving parts in the motor". I cannot grasp the concept to make it work. Give me a reciprocating motor and I can work on it all day long. I chose the 460 because of the LARGE aftermarket for it. I am experimenting with some blowers and whether or not I should keep it carb'd or go EFI.

I have seen several 700+ rwhp rotary's with thousands upon thousands of dollars invested in them. But I have seen a lot of 460's with 700+ rwhp with only 4k invested in them...not bad.

PS - there is no replacement for displacement...well one...BOOOST!

Its really really really easy to understand...check out...

WWW.ROTARYENGINEILLUSTRATED.COM

I had a mazda 13b dual rotor engine in my focus after i blew up the stock I4 motor.. Converted it to RWD to make that work. Trust me rotary engines are 10000 times easier to work on than piston engines once you understand how they work....