Webcam Software Help

[Greylin]

I was hoping that some of you might have more experience in this area than myself. I'm looking for software that would enable 3 or more seperate/individual people to participate at the same time in a video chat/conference. What are the options and what is the best and why? I'm ultimately looking to connect with a couple of my family members that live out of state. Thanks in advance for any insight.

[multi]

http://www.meetingbywire.com/XPNetMeeting.htm

the only time i tried that was with MS Net Meeting (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Netmeeting)
didnt try it for long but seemed to work ok
i dare say theres 1/2 a dozen other programs you can do it with thesedays